I had always been at the end of her facebook "attacks". Demeaning, demonized, disrepute.
I had always kept quiet because I feel that, I have to give her a channel to vent (for me, I usually just keep it inside...)
But as the relationship is totally over (as I smashed my fan to pieces), it had also marked the point when she had really moved on and left me behind.
But also because that is so, the coldness I had felt from her - its exactly why she shouldnt be speaking of me, especially when it attacks my character. It mislead readers to misunderstand the timeline of the context; and allow people to make judgement based on an misinformation. Its indecent and its unfair.
I made it an huge issue yesterday on facebook, drawing concerns and comment by many of my friends. Most of them had stood by me and concur with my views. I am thankful and reprieved. But its not a campaign of shame, its a campaign of dignity - that if you (or anyone whom had initiated a breakup) decides to move on; then dun be an oxymoron - dun ditch and then yet complain abt what the ditched did after the breakup that doesnt suit your eyes.
In a way, its taste of the same medicine - when the person you cared micro-blogged against you in the open space of facebook. I had swallowed it for thus long, its should no longer happen anymore.
I had tolerated the extremes and stuffs beyond what most man would accept and would even believed happened. I will NOT tolerate anymore attack at the only thing I had left possessing - my pride and dignity.
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